I think all this anger you speak of must be perfectly normal Mona. I can identify with almost all of your 'things that make you angry' list.
Originally Posted By: Mona52
We came back together broke, and I have triple my income since then. If that jerkface would have just kept his portion of the bargain, with the job he has now, we would FINALLY be on easy street financially. [quote]
Yep, pretty much how I feel too. We had just in the last year got to a point where we could just do and buy what we wanted without having to check the banking first. It felt great. Now I'll be lucky if I can afford anything other than the bare essentials.
I get angry because I cannot get the stupid sofa out of the old house. It is too big for the door. He would know what to do.
[quote=Mona52]I get angry because I want to text someone during the day. I cant.
OMG I am sooooo glad you put this one! This is what is getting me the most right now! I miss just being able to text him when I'm on a break at work or when one of the kids does something super cute.
Originally Posted By: Mona52
I get angry because I have to be the sole person for 3 kids.
Yep! Except 2 kids for me.
Originally Posted By: Mona52
I get angry because I want to give a nice hot oil massage as much as I want to get one and I just cant.
Yes, yes, yes! I have terrible back problems and now I have nobody to help me with them.
Originally Posted By: Mona52
I get angry because I am not good enough to handle all of this.
I get angry because I dont want to practice patience.
I get angry because he is so cold and indifferent.
I get angry because (I am not trying to be vain) but because I know I am better than OW can ever be.
I get angry because I feel I am funny, happy, pretty, thoughtful and intelligent. How can I not be good enough?
Yes, to all of these too!
I wish I could give some golden piece of advice but I think I'm the last person in the world who would be able to give anything useful right now. Just hope it makes you feel a tiny bit better that what you're thinking/feeling, someone else is too.