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I know he is very visual... I guess part of my problem is the fact that 4 kids has taken a tole on my body! He still looks the same as when I married him... it's just not fair!!!



Yes, its not fair!! If your H is visual (as most men are) and you are uncomfortable with your body image, don't let that hold you back. Theres lots of lovely lingerie that can hide the bulges. You can be creative with positions, leave your lingerie half on/off (more sexy that way) and he'll be none the wiser and you would feel better too.

Hey, be thankful that your H still desires you. Just imagine how its like for us HDW with body image confidence whose H no longer desires them and refuses to talk about it.

If work and children is overwhelming you, speak to your H to see how he can help out.

Good luck.
LH