Thanks Mozza. I like to be challenged and I don't think you are too harsh. More like a dose of what I needed.
I do think about her too much for me. I've identified some of those triggers and I'll work on the ones I can control (décor, painting, etc). Some are beyond my control (2 of which I will talk about in a second). Obviously, the kids, her mother (daycare provider), X-SIL and family, the associated kidney disease and life are some of the other triggers.
You and 2lt are right, and deep down I know it. I'd love to rearrange the face of an arrogant d-bag. But that will not fix anything. And isn't the problem. I can already envision the smirk that I give him.... With the reason being... "Hey Buddy... She couldn't stay here for two kids or for me. What makes you think she will stay with you."
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
