Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[Mona52]

I am sorry she asked you to leave. This might sound weird, but why are you the one moving out, when this is her decision?

You cannot let her touch you. Even if it does no real damage. I dont think you can do anything about the bite or past hits, but if she raises her hand to you again, you have to report it.

I would sit and think about moving out. Under no circumstances should you let her dictate how soon you move, if you even do. They get pushy and the try to control you. You have to immediately show her that she no longer has any control over you in any way.

Even though it might feel like she will hate you if you make things hard on her, those feelings are false. You are allowed to make her mad. You are not destroying your M by standing up for yourself. Repeat that over and over, because it sounds like you will really need that as s shield for her.

Is it possible to get full custody of D3? No one like to see a D away from mom, but the title mom does not automatically mean full custody. It sounds like you are present 100% in D3's life. You can fight to remain so. It is 100% up to you.