G we went through the same thing. You know how far south I live. We had issues at first where we almost broke it off. So far it is working for us. I do not like living out of a suit case during the week. But than I say to myself. Wait I save on energy cost on my home, my job is 18 miles from her home and 91 from mine. So there are pros and cons. I did the same with ex. I made all the changes to accommodate her and I resented it. Now K and I both share as to where we stay during the week and weekends. She does want to move into my place permanently but she has her own 18 y/o D who lives at home. Don't lose hope it can work. Just be patient and see if you guys can negotiate.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden