So, so sorry, bud.

Hang in there and remember that it's all just paper. keep doing what you need to do for yourself and your kids. Filing doesn't mean it's over.

I always said that I thought my W would have to file and go through the whole process before she really understood what she was giving up.

Let her burn it down. You get to decide when you're done DBing, not a piece of paper.

Keep us in the loop, buddy!