I find it hard not to be there when she wants me to be. I keep repeating to myself this is her choice not mine. I am seeing it is a fine line to walk detaching and still caring and not slipping back into being totally available to her.
Just stay consistent when you interact with her. If you waffle back and forth you weaken yourself.
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It just occurred to me she never asks how I am getting along. Why am I concerned?
It's weird, but pretty normal - they are all wrapped up with what's going on with themselves and are very emotionally selfish. It might change, and it might not. After months of one-way conversation, my wife now asks about what's going on in my life. But i will caution you not to read anything into it if she starts asking about you. It DOES NOT necessarily mean she's starting to get her feelings for you back
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
