I find it hard not to be there when she wants me to be. I keep repeating to myself this is her choice not mine. I am seeing it is a fine line to walk detaching and still caring and not slipping back into being totally available to her. It just occurred to me she never asks how I am getting along. Why am I concerned?
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.