No R talks - period. Friends is just another piece of cake eating. 'Enemy in the house' - that's rich! Who's having the EA?
Look, it's all bull$hit on her part and YOU can't do anything to fix it. Once you understand that you can't fix it and that you have to accept it and start forward planning, you'll be in a better place.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015