Quote: I turn him down, tell him another night, then make an excuse the next night not realizing he's been living for this night to come...
Oh man. If he's like me, he's been having a hard time focusing on other things, and when you make that excuse, he doesn't have anything useful he can say. We learn that demanding sex is not a great aphrodisiac, and that being negative kills any desire. So we say nothing, and don't believe it so much the next time, and the barriers go up one step at a time.
