Hi Sotto- so sorry to hear you are sick. And of course, I just want to lend my support to you.

You have helped me so much in my own personal process; I wish I could help you more.

Please know that I am thinking of you and wishing you a speedy recovery.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced