I am just not in favor of the H validating his WW's feelings of nervous excitement about moving out and busting up their family. I may stand alone on this, but it just seems wrong. I mean, the thought of her sharing this with the man she is dumping is pretty cold and rude. I think he should handle it the same way he would if she was telling him she's moving in with OM. Why act like her BFF when she is all excited about leaving you? That's JMHO.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
