First time posting. Waw and trying to repair

[Tyler12]

So I realized I totally dismissed her trying to get me to listen when she mentioned having rent money. I said that's fine it's your business and that was that. Then I realized she was looking for me to validate her feeling of excitement and nervousness. She came back later and said she is nervous. So I listened. She explaine she is nervous about the change and how hard it's going to be
Me: I understand it's a big change there is going to be a lot of differences.
W: it's going to be hard ( she is scared)
M: yes it will not be easy and .....
W: ( now angry at me). This is why I don't talk to you. It's gonna be hard! I'm looking for it will be ok
M: ( deep breath first). If I could have finished it will be hard and you have always been a strong smart woman that can get through the hard.
W: that would have been a better place to start instead of your therapist bs.
Me: i came here to listen not anger you by doing so
And I went to bed as did she.
I get she's angry and scared. And that doesn't bother me. What's bothering me is did i do or say something wrong? Should I have not been caring and supportive. Was I not? I realize this was R talk but she came to me. Wtf just happened.