WW, My Addiction, Patience is HARD

[JGuy]

Hey Trumpet, I'm so sorry to hear that it came to this.

You may not be able to change her choice, but you can always change your choice about how to look at it. IMO, your W is taking the hardest possible path to learn what she must inevitably learn. Whatever you do, don't blame yourself for not being a good enough DBer! The fact that you are even here in the first place, giving it your best shot, is above and beyond.