Somewhere there's a thread about the LBH that talks about being strong. I suspect cordial is not the right tack. Hopefully one of the vets will find you soon and give some good advice.
Good luck, Free.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat