Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[G8r]

Well, it looks like I screwed up again. W asked me to talk because she wants amicable divorce. I tried to listen and validate but I did a crappy job of it because other times I would start defending myself and occasionally speaking in a condescending tone. I know it was wrong and I should have walked away but I didn't.

I know that it's not necessarily over but it sure feels like it right now.