Separated- Wife in Emotional Affair

[Chris82]

I made a mistake tonight.. I made contact. I had a frustrating day at work, Someone texted me and a snapshot of one of the W's status updates that talked about how "taking even a small step in the right direction was a good thing" and it was "liked" by the OM's sister. I texted her telling her how I was glad to hear she was handling things so well.... ugh.. stupid stupid man!

I have since told that contact I no longer wish to have updates on her condition, that I am trying to focus on my own life and take time for me. They agreed to not do it anymore. She replied with "well since you seem over the past 3 days to not even care, that shouldn't be too hard"... All I said in return was that I "refused to talk ugly with her" and ended the conversation.

I'm sorry gang.. I dropped the ball. But at least there wasn't any conflict. Where we would usually fight I just told her I wouldn't do it again...