Zues, what you said about your kids made me think of something I read once - when it comes to romantic love, it is more important for people to love than to be loved. I guess most of us have experienced affection or love from someone we weren't really interested in, and it's true - it doesn't matter one bit how much they love us if we don't feel anything for them.

Hopefully, you will meet a woman in your own situation, someone who has grown through experience, maybe with children or maybe not wanting them. More and more women choose not to have children at all, you know. I chose not to in this M.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17