Still racking my brain for a good way to articulate this message. W tried to temp check me earlier by sending me some picture of herbalife stuff saying it would help "us" (maybe a typo) to control eating and was packed full of protein. Lol, I have no problem controlling eating. I've lost 33 lbs. and leaned out. Also texted me that she had gone to OBgyn today and wasn't feeling very good. I simply responded with an ok. Where I'm running into the issue with my text is that I'm saying "i'm not okay with an open marriage, and these illicit relationships are very unattractive to me." Sandi says that if you SAY something like that, you must be prepared to back it up with something. Also, another tough thing is that we go to tumbling once a week together. Should we just schedule it to be where only 1 of us is with her on rotating weeks? Also, we call each other at night, only to say goodnight to D2. No conversations between each other. Trying to get the best detachment possible. I need to delete her off snapchat as well.


Me:36
W: 27
D2
T10
M:2.5
Filed D 1/14/16
BD: Sep 15
A Discovered: 11/17/15
She moves out 11/19/15