Hi Imlucky - you are definitely stronger than me. I am still holding onto the belief that we were the perfect couple. I cannot believe what is happening. So yeah I'm stuck for sure.
Jpeg, I can relate to your comment. I thought we were a pretty ideal couple, too. But then the OW came along and my W jumped ship. And now we are apart. I have to hold onto hope that being apart might help and that she'll miss me and OW will mess up and... I know I'm not supposed to think like this.
The whole idea of NC and GAL is hard to fathom, but even if it doesn't bring us back together in a new relationship, it will make us (on this thread) stronger. That's what I'm counting on.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat