My H also blanks me when he comes to see kids and I don't sit with him when he is with kids as I see it as his "me time" with his children. It was hard at the beginning but now I'm fine with it! I reckon this is what you should do as it feels you are expecting him to interact with you when he is with kids.
Don't blame yourself for writing that text, we all have done it. Before you attempt to reply come and vent here and I'm sure after that you won't feel the need to reply.
Hang in there :-)
I was trying to do that when all this first started Rouky, but he turns up while I'm eating tea with them and so then I don't see why I should have to make myself scarce in the middle of that. You're right about it being hard to do too. I really hate the fact that I can't be with my kids all the time anymore because he has chosen to dump me. I feel like I'm being punished with it. He has hardly lifted a finger with the kids their whole lives. OK, a lot of it was because of working, but even when he isn't at work he's never been remotely interested. NOW I have to 'share' them with him and have to miss out on moments of their lives!?!?! This makes me hate him so much.
