Aw man. Did she say it after your H left? He came by tonight (went ok, I guess) but when we told D that he would come pick her up tomorrow morning and take her to this activity, she got upset and said she wanted me to go. It's pretty normal she will choose one over the other but go back and forth but she was very insisting it should be me.
Yes, she did say it after he left. I'm sure she's hurting more than she's letting on. She has hardly said anything about the whole situation and only cried a couple of times, but the last week she has been saying her tummy hurts all the time. I think it is the upset manifesting itself as tummy pain.
Bless your D. It is so unfair that they have to be passed between mum and dad like this. They didn't ask for it, we didn't ask for it. It appears the only people winning are the WASs.
Originally Posted By: Gmum
It breaks my heart knowing that soon she'll learn that he doesn't live with us anymore. This is not what I signed up for.
((((Gmum)))) No, who would sign up for it. As you say, it is just so heartbreaking. There is nothing we can do to stop their pain. I hate my H so much when I think of this.
