That's what my friends say too. That when she's a teenager she'll be upset with him. I'm just worried she'll think I took her away from her dad, not that he kinda made me. Regardless, I do see it as a privilege to be there parent who is there for everything. I read an interesting essay a while back about quality time vs quantity. Basically it said that you can schedule quality time, but you cannot schedule when a person is willing to open up and articulate what is on their mind. You have to be there at the right time for that. These things tend to happen spontaneously. I'm not explaining it very well, hope you can still make sense of it.