On top of pursuing questions... I feel like if I try to flirt or do certain things, it seems to bring about a bad feeling... a reminder of his shame... or something. So it's tricky there too. Dunno if I shouldn't at all or what. For that matter, he feels the emotional difference too... I can tell. I try not to let it show...but maybe I can't tell how much it does. So confusing.
Last edited by kyrie; 01/07/1609:30 PM.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
