This suggestion is not sexy in any way but make a list of things that you can do. Like Groping him, rubbing his back, playing with his hair and Iniating ML at least one aweek. Then as you do these things check them off your list. With this maybe you will start thinking and anticapating(sp) these little things. I think by doing these things that your H will open up like a flower and you well starting getting more of what you need.
