You know what? I always have wanted to be *that* - and right now, most of the time, I'll take it. It's confusing but it seems like I'm pursuing him...
From what I can tell, it makes no difference in his porn use, despite what he said about the past. You're right - I have to focus on just supporting him. It's what I want to do... he's the one who keeps sniping and *wanting* to hash through the past, etc.
Last edited by kyrie; 01/07/1609:16 PM.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
