No more EA, just the porn. So, does that mean he's still wayward? He certainly hasn't been looking for anything good with the M, or working on it. Just insisting on me *changing*. Which, I feel that I have, but he says that I have not, which is enormously frustrating. I know it takes time... but if he's not seeing/feeling it, then what else is there?? I haven't really turned to anyone/anything else to get my needs. I have a few friends which care & talk to me (and it makes him mad...some are male) and this place.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?