Hey, jenoftheisland.

First, WAY TO GO !!!! Woooooo Hooooo!!

Don't stop doing what you are doing. It is a good thing.

To answer your query about resentment and anger in the (formally) rejected partner:

Their are two possibilities.

1) He is hurt and angry at being rejected.

2) He is lying telling you that he is not hurt or angry.

There are extremely few people capable of such magnanimous behavior as to ignore repeated rejection and harbor no damaged feelings.

All the best!
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.