Back to square one, not sure I can do this again!

[Imlucky]

If someone on is depressed unless they do something about it and go get treatment all our best efforts to help and encourage will be seen as nagging or forcing the issue

I'm back to no contact and with my W I don't know if she is depressed she falls me she thinks she is but hasn't or won't get help i get blame for everything wrong in her life and the cause of all her anger

Is depression the same as MLC?

MB can I ask after you made contact after 5 weeks and this happened have you felt like it's all started over again?

We had contact after 3 weeks and she tells me it upsets her and that I need to leave her be so I am doing that I feel there will come a point when I have grown learnt and got counselling that I won't be there and willing to go back