Thank you Mona and Azzork. Reading what you wrote puts into better perspective how I am approaching this. It does seem like a game when you mention it. And that isn't how I should be handling this. As for OM talk I told her the other night it is disrespectful to me and she said she understood. When it came up last night I reminded her and she apologized.
Goals. Focus time and energy on making children's life great. Bs pending more time and attention on them. Helping them cope with any issues in their life and being the parent I want to be for them Focus on my apprenticeship and schooling right now. Complete my second year with knowlege and have the best grades I can achieve.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.