Battles of the sexes?

[JulieH]

Bt13, you are right. He did not value me anymore and was trying to find things to Help devalue me instead of looking at it rationally. I am happy that by GAL I have regained my value.

I used to be fun and flirtatious and laughed a lot and played a lot of practical jokes when we first met. Then I became boring and settled and lazy and complacent as the marriage went on. I was following my parents foot steps. Not dressing up, not going out, no fun, very conservative, no more letting loose, kids come first in the most helicopter mom way.

I am trying to get that part of me back now.