Judy gave you good advice that I cant follow myself...

I have yet to pack up our bedroom. We both moved out of the apartment. I still have to move everything out of our bedroom, but every time I walk in there, it is just draining, and I am too busy to be drained.

But she was so right. If you can just get rid of his stuff, it will feel like a weight is lifted you did not even know was there.

Just pack one thing at a time until it is all gone. Vent on here if you need to.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!