Bt13, he played role in it. You were taking on a lot of responsibilities back then, and you are doing same now. I know they say cheating is a symptom. I don't buy that. Cheating is a choice. I don't believe there is ever an excuse for it. Anyone that says that, is lying to themselves. You might have shared a role in marriage's decline but not in his choice to cheat. It is the ultimate betrayal. I was loyal to my husband despite a lot of sexual downs we encountered during our relationship. I made a choice that I would never cheat. Many of the men on these boards were loyal as well.
Last edited by JulieH; 01/07/1606:51 PM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
