As I'm reading a lot of these situations and I notice that there are a lot of wives on here that are open about their friendships and talk to their husbands about the OM.
For the VETS: From experience and reading, what do you see or what trends have you noticed between a WW who shares this information openly or a WW who states just friends when the name comes up and never mentions anything about the OM to H?
Maybe there is nothing, maybe there is...Could be that my wife doesn't want to look like the bad guy in the marriage but it will be inevitable if she has a BF and its the same guy who was just a 'friend"? Just really curious is anyone has saw different trends in situations where the wife is open about the OM or keeps the OM a secret from EVERYONE...thoughts?
