Originally Posted By: Gmum
I get to do the daily grind and parenting, he gets to swoop in like the fun uncle.


I still cant handle this part. I get to punish and force homework. But he gets to take them to the movies. Okay, he has not taken them to the movies, but he COULD. He never has to wash their clothes, or cook dinner, after buying it, after planning it, just to hear them say they dont like it.

I have no words of wisdom here because it svcks. And it will never get better.

I lied, there is a way I get through this when I get mad. I forgot I used to do this.

Whenever I think H gets the fun stuff and I have to scrub the bathroom floor, make my S's bed, vacuum my D room, make my D read her science book, take the dog for a walk in the cold...

I rethink that whole sentence but i change one word first.

Whenever I think H gets the fun stuff and I GET to scrub the bathroom floor, make my S's bed, vacuum my D room, make my D read her science book, take the dog for a walk in the cold.

I get to do all of this with my magical family and he does not.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!