I do feel that women have it harder in divorce situations. Although I know many of you men don't feel like that now. An older man can easily find a younger female to start a new family with. I don't think it is as easy for a female. How can we compete? I know this is so sterotypical and it really depends on the situation and people involved. I know that I wouldn't want a man my age that is looking to date women 20 years younger then them. I know a few men who have actually married significantly older women.
It doesn't matter though. I just know I wish I could be entering the dating world looking like I did when I met my husband. IF I honestly assess the situation, I know Im in a decent position to meet someone. But I am still very afraid to start over at this point in my life.


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015