Fo, that example is amazing! I can see just what I can do from your specific example.

The piece of chocolate cake is a little large. But that is fine, because I just got an over-sized mug of Hazelnut Creme coffee. I am handed the cake by a Swedish masseuse as he tells me I have the loveliest eyes. Then he tells me the cake has zero calories.

Wait, maybe I should save this for helping my M?

okay, Judy, you can have my chocolate cake Law of Attraction. You need it way more than I do.

Now, dont talk to your H until Monday, at the minimum. I wont tell you to stay away from him, because that sounds like an impossible goal for you right now. Let's just agree that this weekend is only for you. Dont talk to him until Monday. But before you talk to him on Monday, ask us first!


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!