Zues, I just caught up with your post in Julie's last thread comparing lack of sex for women vs. lack of sex for men. It might not be the same, I don't know. But I do know that in our culture, women are supposed to be the "object" of desire, lusted after, wanted, and as a woman who is continually rejected it really wears on my self esteem, self worth and feeling like a "woman." Funny you describe the low sex drive as 1-2 x per week. That is what I call my high drive. 1-2x per week would be heaven for me.


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