Letting go, finally

[trumpet]

She might realize how much love you put into the R once she's healthy, and realize how much love she's had for you. Healing the R could come way more easily than you think, IF she works on herself.

If she's taking the time for herself, please devote every day to a better JGuy.

There's always a chance it won't work out. Detaching from being dependent will give you the opportunity to want to be there, not NEED to be there.

We all need relationships - we all need friends. I feel most of us really want to be married - to have someone so close to us we feel as one with them. So detaching doesn't mean to become a robot, a shell of a person. Quite the contrary - you'll understand your feelings, and act on them appropriately.