I came here to talk about sex, what's with all this faith talk? LOL.
For me faith is about giving up the need to control the outcome, having "faith" that as long as I do my part and keep my eyes focused on the "big picture" which for me is God, for others maybe "the force for good" or whatever you want to call a higher power, that I can give up the need to be in control.
Sex for me is a constant source of frustration because the common perception seems to be that men want it all the time and women don't, and for me my experience has not reflected that. I feel I am in a state of constant shame, rejection, and sadness over this. I feel like there must be something inherently wrong with me because of this. I know that there isn't, but its a feeling that is hard to shake.
