Did you learned anything from this? Let him aside for a moment and think what happen.
Do not think WHY he did this because you know there will be no answer for that since he is a total idiot right now.
But, think that if he was looking for what is the same with you and he got, didn't him? You are a very hot head jealous latina, and I guess I can say that because I am too.
So, take the time you have and think how you can do it differently from now on.
First, I would not call him even if it is a moment later, or hours later. You are not suppose to be sitting around waiting for him to tell what you need to do next.
Ignore it, and if he calls again and complain you did not call him, say very friendly that you got distract and forgot to call him, and even ask him if there is anything you can help?
We all know you are not detached, we all know it is the hardest thing to do. But you need to act "as if" for now, and let him see that he is not that important to you right now. You start having some other stuff in your life and is not too worry about what he is doing or not doing.
Friendly, not sad, not super happy, distracted at times, mysterious, do not say anything about you to him.
Let him scream and do all what he can do to bother you and do not bite the bait. Do you have any place you can spend the weekend with the kids, maybe get away for a couple of days?
He is important to you, he was not this fool when you fell in love with him, but right now he running for the biggest Jerk contest and he wants badly to get the trophy. Get out of his way, let him deal with his own s**t for now.
Say a prayer, keep quite and get yourself together again, you can do this, I know you can.