Here is my opinion about having a chat like this.

Can you do it with NO EXPECTATIONS, calmly and rationally?

Until two people want to have a relationship and meet each others needs it is unlikely that this chat will have much success.

Love is a Choice and both people must choose to DO it.

DB'ing is about speaking with ACTIONS and not words,
controlling ourselves and not someone else.

So before you DO this what do you think will be the results?

Me-70, D37,S36