I did two days in a row of yoga! Will continue today.
Julie, it is possible that your H isn't in an A. Just because 90% of the spouses on here have cheated doesn't mean they all have. I sometimes wonder if my H's EA was a lot more than he admits to, but then I realize that being on this board and hearing about everyone else's situations makes me a little more on guard against this than I would otherwise be. Its a double edged sword- good to be aware of the possibility because it fits the pattern, but also at the same time, can make you paranoid and filled with doubts. For now I have decided to trust that my H isn't in one. That his EA is over. I am trying my best not to entertain doubts and to "not go there." Time will reveal the truth. It is hard. But you have no proof of an A and I think- if I am reading you correctly- that your gut is telling you that there is no OW.
