Just another little thought that popped into my head.

Last night she asked me to move a coffee table so we could play crib I expressed my thoughts being that there is no point because we both know it doesn't work and it's easier to play at the kitchen table. But if she wants it moved she's a big girl and can move it. I will get te cards and board. She said ya your right lets go to the table. Geez what's with men being bitchy today?

I knew she must be arguing with OM and I don't care. I said grumpy? I am in a fantastic mood see? As I put a massive smile on my face. No come play this game with me so I can kick your butt. Haha.

Taking te focus off her and being a respectful in control man in my house is giving me a wonderful sense of self worth and knowledge I will be great no matter what.
Not that if/when she leaves it won't be a hard time. I feel like I am setting myself up for it to be harder for her than myself tho.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.