Lou, it could also be that the closeness and intimacy over the Xmas period has spooked him a little and he's popped back into his hole for a little safety. If so, I'm sure he will emerge again soon as he has consistently shown his desire to reconcile.

I think if you can act 'as if' you are okay with giving him (and yourself) a little space after your nice visit, that will be the best plan. Ask yourself whether him coming back and you saying - hey, I needed you to stay in touch more! - is going to help or hinder.

Take care my friend xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus