Hi Miss Cat,

You've received so much sound advice that I have nothing else to add. Just wanted to offer you some support.

You sound calm and even if you really aren't, keep faking it. Nothing pushes WS faster than desperate, clinging spouses.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.