Great news. I took back the bed tonight. I mentioned the air mattress was not working for me and she said I'll sleep on it. Ok. So come time for bed I went to her and said your going to sleep downstairs on the air mattress cause I need to move my stuff back up. W: oh ya. Ok So I grabbed my stuff moved it all back in. And as a parting gift shot a little spray of her Favorite cologne of mine that always did wonders for me in the corner of the room. Huge confidence booster. Then we were having a smoke before bed and she starts a "funny story" that leads to it being about OM. I looked at her and she says what. It's a funny story! Me: I see that it's a funny story at the same time I asked you not to talk about anything to do with OM. W: Ok. I'm sorry. Then I changed the subject to something else. She still talks about when she leaves and it still bothers me but not as much as even a week ago
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.