New Year..Need new goals

[Rain75]

This is a process. Be truly gentle and kind with yourself. The fact you are here, on this site? That says a lot of good things about you. This site isn't for the weak of heart, or people who don't understand commitment and hard work.

Oh Ancaire how right you are. DBing or even trying to attempt it is not for everyone.

And I like how you sweetly described your pain and angst as you perhaps having your own tantrum. it was/is hell on wheels. And thanks for saying my reply wasn't that bad. I was pretty upset with myself about it.

But yes. We live and we learn and we try to move on.

I read a meme today that for whatever reason made me feel better....

Forgiving you is my gift to you
Moving on is my gift to myself

I hope you're having a good day. I have been so engrossed reading self help books and t034s threads today but I need to catch up on my peeps threads