Tonight she lost her temper at our 3 ur old after I asked him to play with me a little quieter as his 10m brother was just asleep. She came into the room roaring to stop yelling and dad told you! I said I am handling this he understands and she stormed off. After he went to bed I approached her and said. I understand you had a rough day at work and are wore out, at the same time I feel like the way you yelled at our son was uncalled for, there is no need to take things out on him. I started to walk away after that and she huffed and said look who decided to be a parent now! I smiled and maybe threw my own barb but said someone needs to. And kept on walking. Since she has dropped the moody attitude and we have had a couple small but good conversations. Not about R just things.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
