G8r, it sounds like we have similar sitch and similar problems communicating with W. Like Mona said we can't believe any of what S says right now. My W also tries to start fights just to wrestle back control. stay calm. Be happy for you stay calm. It's not easy when your insides are tearing apart.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
